You and Your Partner Are Not the Same Person — The Midlife Trenches
5 min readNov 23, 2020
You either read the title of this little rant with an indignant “No kidding!” because you only socialize with friends with clear boundaries; a heartfelt “Amen!” because you know exactly what I’m talking about; or a puzzled “Well, of course I know that, but don’t you know that an invitation for one of us is an invitation for both / we don’t keep secrets-even your secrets-from…
